OK, @Chrononight... do I have suggestions for you!
Starfinder has a number of very established lodges where you can play!
The
Roll For Combat Discord is a great place if you are interested in Starfinder Play by Post!
The
Cosmic Crit Discord is a great place for VTT Games (Mostly on Roll 20)
The
Starfinder Nexus Discord is another great place for VTT Games!
There is also:
The
Paizo Org Play Discord is a good source for Paizo Organized Play info and games, including Starfinder.
Castamir's Flaxseed Station is a PbP lodge based on Paizo's official boards
Hope this helps! Please let me know if you want more info.